Channel Your Inner Mistress™

Every woman has Her.

The one who doesn’t ask.
The one who doesn’t apologise.
The one who just is.

She’s been waiting. Awaken her.

For too long, you’ve been told how to be a “good” woman.
Soft. Polite. Pleasing.
Strong—but not too much.
Bold—but only when it serves others.

You’ve played the role. You’ve followed the script.
And somewhere along the way, you lost her.

The part of you that’s bold. Sensual. Unapologetically embodied.
The part of you that takes up space without permission.

Channel Your Inner Mistress™ is about finding her again.

The one who walks into a room and doesn’t shrink or shapeshift—she simply owns it.

The one who commands with presence, speaks with certainty, and moves with magnetism.

The one who is deeply connected to her body, her desires, and her voice—even if the world told her not to be.

This isn’t about sex. It’s about essence.
It’s about capturing your sensual energy—the most untapped source of confidence, clarity, and fearlessness—and weaving it into every part of your life.

Because when a woman is connected to that energy?

She walks differently

She speaks differently

She decides differently

And she doesn’t need anyone’s permission to do it.

“

When a woman reclaims her power, she doesn’t ask for permission—she becomes the permission. — Lady Velvet

Lady Velvet™

The Force You Can No Longer Ignore

The Woman Who Knows Power—In Every Form

To some, I am a whisper.
To others, I am the presence they can’t ignore.

But to every woman who finds herself here—I am the guide she has been looking for.

I have spent three decades inside desire, power, and influence—not from theory, but from practice. As a phone sex operator, I didn’t just hear men’s fantasies—I understood them. I learned how power moves between men and women, how attraction is shaped, and how much of it has nothing to do with sex and everything to do with presence.

As a professionally trained dominatrix, I mastered the unspoken rules of seduction, control, and command. I understand power not as force, but as energy—the kind that makes people lean in before a word is spoken. The kind that can’t be faked.

And in the corporate world, I saw those same dynamics play out under a different name. I worked in spaces where confidence was currency, where women were watched but not heard, admired but not respected, powerful but expected to soften. I walked the tightrope of being strong, but not too much.

I know the undercurrent of both worlds—the silent rules, the unspoken fears, the fear of stepping too far. And I know what happens when a woman learns to own herself fully—without apology.

For decades, I have worked with women who felt disconnected—from their sensuality, from their power, from the version of themselves they knew existed but didn’t know how to reach.

I have seen what happens when a woman stops asking.
Stops waiting.
Stops shrinking.

I have guided women through that transformation—not just in their sexuality, but in their leadership, relationships, and deepest sense of self.

Because the power you seek? It’s already within you. It always has been.

The only question is—are you ready to claim it?

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I don’t care what you think about me. I don’t think about you at all. — Coco Chanel

What is Mistress Energy

and What It Isn’t?

The world lied to you.
They told you that power is masculine.
That pleasure is shameful.
That owning your presence makes you intimidating.

Mistress Energy is not a role. It’s a return to self.
It is the energy of a woman who is so deeply embodied in who she is, she no longer seeks validation.
She doesn’t over-explain. She doesn’t over-give. She doesn’t ask.

She commands.

It’s not loud. It’s not aggressive.
It’s quiet power. Magnetic presence.
The perfect balance of yin and yang—the soft, the sharp, the sensual, the strong.

Mistress Energy is the part of you that’s been silenced for too long.
It’s time to name her. Claim her. Be her.

”

You were never meant to be small. Mistress Energy isn’t something you learn—it’s something you reclaim. — Lady Velvet

Who is this for?

The Woman Who Knows Power

In Every Form

This is for the woman who:

Slays at work but feels disconnected from her raw, feminine essence.
Knows she’s powerful—but isn’t sure how to own it in every part of her life.
Wants to stop shrinking, people-pleasing, and second-guessing herself.
Feels something deep calling her forward—but hasn’t answered yet.
Is ready to create and step into her alter ego—the untamed, unapologetic version of herself.
Wants to shake off the chains of past trauma and fully reclaim herself.
Has walked away from a divorce, a toxic relationship, or a life that wasn’t hers—and is ready to build something new.
Feels trapped in cycles of self-doubt and is done playing small.
Craves a space where she can explore her desires, confidence, and sensuality without apology.

Lady Velvet™

The Force You Can No Longer Ignore

You can be ruthless
ANDsoft.

You can be bold
AND surrendered.

You can be playful
ANDuntouchable.

Mistress Energy lets you be all of it

without limits.

”

She remembered who she was and the game changed.— Lalah Delia

What you will master?

Command Presence

Walk into a room, and they feel it before you speak. You will master the art of being seen and felt without needing to prove yourself.

The Art of the Voice

Every word like silk and steel. You will cultivate a voice that mesmerises, commands, and seduces in equal measure.

Magnetic Power

The irresistible force of certainty. You will learn how to own your space, your energy, and your influence effortlessly.The irresistible force of certainty. You will learn how to own your space, your energy, and your influence effortlessly.

Seductive Mastery

The rhythm, the pull, the slow burn. You will master the power of presence, desire, and knowing exactly when to lean in—or step back.

Breaking The Chains

Rewriting every rule that stole your presence. You will strip away the conditioning, the shame, and the shoulds that have kept you playing small.

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Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.”— Oscar Wilde

The Velvet Undercurrent™

Where her power runs deep

This isn’t a membership. It’s a current.
Silent. Relentless. Unstoppable.

Beneath the surface of every woman runs a power she’s been taught to silence—her sensuality, her sovereignty, her command.

The Velvet Undercurrent is where she lets it rise.
Not with noise. Not with force.
But with depth, desire, and complete presence.

This is a space for women who know the longing.
Who feel the pulse of WHIP—Women Harnessing Inner Power.
And who are ready to stop floating—and start flowing.

Lady Velvet™

The Force You Can No Longer Ignore

💋 The Journey Through The Undercurrent

The Velvet WHIP™

(The Awakening)

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The Velvet Temple™

(The Immersion)

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The Velvet Sanctuary Of Power™

(The Becoming)

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You were once wild here. Don’t let them tame you. — Isadora Duncan

The Velvet WHIP™ (The Awakening)

(WHIP: Women Harnessing Inner Power)

For the curious. The watchers. The women who feel the spark but aren’t ready to dive deep—yet.

Soft prompts that stir self-reflection & sensuality.
A safe, private, elegant space to flirt with your power.
Community energy without commitment.

💡 “Feel the pulse. Let it tingle at the surface.”

The Velvet Temple™ (The Immersion)

The Velvet Temple™ (The Immersion)
For the women who want more than whispers. They want the full current—the flow, the command, the depth.

Monthly Mistress Masterclasses & Sensual Activation Rituals.
Live Q&A Sessions—real conversations, real power.
A private community space where women rise, together.

“This isn’t about learning. It’s about remembering.”

THE VELVET SANCTUARY OF POWER™ (THE BECOMING)

For the few who step beyond mastery. The ones who don’t just hold power—they command it in every part of their lives.

This is the inner circle. The sanctuary where power is not just claimed—it is lived.

High-touch mentorship & deep embodiment training – The deepest, most intimate level of support to refine, embody, and master the Mistress craft.
The full embodiment of Mistress Energy – Beyond sensuality, this is where dominance, presence, and sovereignty are cultivated in every part of life.
Exclusive, intimate spaces for full activation, deep-dive sensual liberation practices.

– A private, elite container where every layer of a woman’s power is revealed and crowned.

This isn’t surface-level. It’s not for everyone. It’s for those who are ready to lead. This is the undercurrent—the force that drives it all

Invite Lady Velvet to speak

Power. Seduction. The Rhythm of Command.

This is not another ‘confidence talk.’
This is a conversation that changes the air in the room.

✔ Retreats & transformational events – for women reclaiming sensual power.
✔ Podcasts & interviews – for bold conversations on sex, confidence, and power.
✔ Exhibitions & festivals – for those who seek the untamed truth.
✔ Private masterminds – where influence and magnetism are currency.

Mistress Energy is not a brand.
It is a force.

And the world is ready for it.

Book Lady Velvet Now

The Velvet Testament

"I spent years telling myself I didn’t need this. That I had already done ‘the work.’ But there’s a difference between surviving and living. There’s a difference between knowing you’re worthy and actually feeling it in your bones. CYIM isn’t for women who want surface-level confidence—it’s for women ready to own every part of themselves."

Brenda, 51,
Canada, Psychotherapist

"I came in sceptical, I won’t lie. It sounded a bit too much. Mistress Energy? WHIPs? The language scared me. But what scared me more? The idea that I might go another 20 years feeling invisible. This isn’t just a program. It’s a wake-up call."

Yasmin, 50
UK, Retail Business Owner

"I came here thinking I would learn how to be ‘stronger.’ But I see now that strength isn’t about building walls. It’s about knowing when to let someone in without losing yourself. CYIM was the first space that didn’t just tell me to ‘heal’—it showed me what it felt like to trust myself again."

Naomi, 47
UK, HR Director

"I’m younger than most of the women here, but I knew I needed this. I didn’t want to wait until I had spent decades putting everyone else first before finally giving myself permission. CYIM was my shortcut to loving myself more."

Jasmine, 39
UK, IT Project Manager

"I lost my sensuality in the chaos of motherhood. In the routine of marriage. In the years of saying, ‘not tonight, I’m tired.’ I didn’t think I could ever get it back. CYIM showed me that desire isn’t something you find—it’s something you claim."

Claire, 50
Sweden, Midwife

"I didn’t think this space was for women like me. Women with history. Women with scars. I thought sensuality belonged to the untouched, the unbroken. But CYIM didn’t ask me to be anyone else. It didn’t ask me to forget. It asked me to come home to myself—just as I am."

Sofia, 48
UK, Social Worker

"I was always curious about ‘that world.’ The whispers, the power, the way some women seemed to command desire without ever begging for it. But I was told nice girls don’t ask for those things. That’s how I spent 40 years disconnected from my own pleasure. Never again."

Lisa, 45
Portugal, Tattoo Artist

"I hesitated before joining. I was worried I wouldn’t ‘fit in’—that maybe I was too old, too out of touch with my sensuality, too set in my ways. But CYIM doesn’t ask you to change. It reminds you who the hell you were before the world told you otherwise."

Rebecca, 53
France, Hotel General Manager

"I signed up for CYIM thinking I would get ‘more confident.’ I left understanding that confidence isn’t something you ‘get’—it’s something you stop giving away."

Margaret, 58
UK, Retired Civil Servant

"I spent decades in a marriage where I put his needs first. In bed, in life, in everything. Now? I am the Mistress of my own body, my own pleasure, my own damn story."

Lorraine, 54
Spain, Sex and Relationship Therapist

"My children are grown. My career is stable. I have everything they told me I should want. So why did I still feel like something was missing? CYIM gave me the answer: I was the thing missing. And I refuse to disappear again."

Julia, 49
USA, Creative Director

"For years, I let my career define me. I was respected, I was successful… but I was also exhausted. Where was the woman who once felt ALIVE? CYIM didn’t give me back my spark—it made me realise I never lost it. I just buried it under duty and expectation."

Monica, 48
Germany, Interior Designer

"I thought sensuality had an expiration date. That after a certain point, it was something we just… let go of. But why? Who decided that? CYIM reminded me that pleasure, confidence, and power belong to us at any age. And I am just getting started."

Isabelle, 64
UK, Retired Pharmacist

"Mistress Energy isn’t just about confidence in the bedroom. It’s about confidence in the boardroom, in friendships, in how I hold myself. I’m no longer the woman who says yes just to keep the peace. I’m the woman who decides."

Vanessa, 47
USA, Construction Project Manager

"I used to think ‘nice girls’ don’t talk about sex, don’t ask for what they want, don’t take up space. But what if being ‘nice’ was just another way I was trained to be small? CYIM showed me I don’t have to choose between being powerful and being desired—I get to have both."

Lily, 33
UK, Fashion Buyer

"I spent 25 years being the ‘strong one.’ Holding everything together, running a business, raising kids, supporting a partner. But who was holding ME? CYIM reminded me that being strong doesn’t mean carrying everything alone. Sometimes power is in the letting go."

Angela, 51
UK, Restaurant Owner

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